Gary Chapman has a great article on Focus on the Family’s website. It is about the 5 love languages, and how we can identify them within our children. It is such a great reminder that we need to find out how each of our children expresses and wants to be loved. Every child is different, so one may need affirmation, while another touch, and another quality time. Once we know how each child accepts and gives love, we need to use that to consistently show them they are loved. God loves us unconditionally, so we should love others that same way, especially our children.
Check out the article here, and use what you have learned to love your children more deeply.